Smile Therapy

My favorite thing about being part of Ruby Receptionists is that I get to make someone’s day a little better.  Whether it is getting an important call to the right person or just being friendly to a caller who hasn’t had such a good day, I get to be bright and cheery and make the caller feel special for a few minutes.  Some days, though, I’m a grouch.  We all have them: those days when you just don’t want to get out of bed and it all goes downhill from there.  The good news is that there is an easy solution. 

They say that laughter is the best medicine, but you don’t even have to let out a chuckle to reap the many benefits that come with smiling.  You don’t even have to feel like smiling to get those feel-good rewards, either.  In an often-cited study, researchers gave participants a pencil to hold while they read a comic strip.  One group held the pencils between their pursed lips while the other group held them between their teeth.  The teeth-holding group (the group able to smile) found the comic strip much funnier than the lip-holding group.  The study says, “The embodiment of emotion, when induced in human participants by manipulations of facial expression and posture in the laboratory, causally affects how emotional information is processed” (Embodying Emotion, by Paula Niedenthal)  In simpler words:  it isn’t just that happiness makes you smile, it’s that smiling makes you happy!

So smile away and you’ll release endorphins that make you want to smile even more.  Plus, when you smile, others want to smile at you.  You’ll create a vicious cycle of happiness.

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How To Worry Less About “Less” and “Fewer”

Less and fewer are an especially confusing pair of words.  Both words have the same essential meaning—the opposite of more—but each word has a unique application.  In my experience, it seems the word less is used a lot more often than it should be. 

If you are describing something that can be counted one-by-one, fewer is the correct choice.  Less is intended to describe things that cannot be counted.  Sounds tricky, right?  Here’s an easy way to determine which word to use: if you can add “one,” “two,” or any number to the word or phrase you’re describing, fewer is your choice.

Let’s consider water as an example.  One lake, two rivers, three streams—these phrases all make sense.  Lakes, rivers, and streams can all be counted one-by-one, so fewer pairs with these words.  But one water?  That doesn’t work. Therefore, less water is the way to go.

Nevada has fewer lakes than Minnesota.

I will add less water to the soup next time.

On the other hand, if you’re describing gallons of water, fewer is the correct choice, because gallons can be counted one-by-one (one gallon, two gallons, three gallons). 

Here are some less phrases: less time, less money, less flour, less fear

Here are some fewer phrases: fewer seconds, fewer dollars, fewer cups of flour, fewer limitations

For those businesses seeking fewer missed connections and less stress, our grammar-savvy team of remote receptionists is an excellent solution.

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Solicitors are People Too

The solicitor is one of the many call types that, as a receptionist, I handle every day.  As a Ruby, my goal is to handle these calls professionally, efficiently, and cheerfully.  There are a few things I like to keep in mind.

1)  Who are they calling?  Sometimes, the company that the solicitor is calling actually does want to talk to them.  After all, there are several reasons that you might just want to talk to that cold-caller.  I always try to keep in mind that not all solicitations are a bad thing.

2) Identifying the Solicitor.  Usually, a solicitor will ask to speak with “the owner or manager.”  At this point, I will ask the caller their name, company name, and what the call is regarding.  I always assume that they are any other caller until I prove otherwise, which means treating them with respect and speaking cheerfully.  There are two phrases you can use to ascertain whether the call is a solicitation.  Sometimes I say, “May I ask if this is a solicitation?”, but more often than not that gets a confused “Huh?” in response.  The other way to phrase it is “Are you calling to offer your services?”

3) Don’t Name-Drop.  If the call is a solicitation, and the business they are calling does not want to speak with solicitors, I always try not to name-drop.  The reason for this is that if a caller asks for someone specific, my screening techniques are different.  I only ask for the information that the person has requested.  Solictors are notorious for calling back several times, and even if you are able to screen them the first time, if you give out the “owner or manager’s” name, then you might not be able to screen the call the second time.

4) Declining the Call.  This is where it gets tricky.  When you have found out that the call is a solicitation, and you know that the business doesn’t want those calls, you are faced with the task of ending the call and asking the solicitor not to call back.  The phrasing I use is, “Unfortunately I’m not allowed to accept this type of call.  Please remove us from your list, but have a nice day!”  Whenever I can, I use the caller’s first name as well. 

5) Solicitors are People Too.  Personally, I can’t imagine how hard it would be to make cold-calls all day long, getting shut down time and time again (and not always in the nicest way).  That’s why it is very important to remember that even though it is a solicitation, there is still a real person on the other end of the line.  I tend to be especially nice to solicitors.  The other bonus about this is that the screening process is fallible.  Sometimes a real caller can sound like a solicitor, and hanging up on a real caller is never a good thing.  But if you do make the mistake of disconnecting a legitimate call, then at least you’ve done it in a friendly way.

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Another Tricky Pair: Principal and Principle

Remember you high school principal, master of suspensions and stern talking-tos? For spelling purposes, you probably learned that this person was your pal—your principal.

In fact, the word principal has many meanings, and can serve as an adjective or a noun. As an adjective, principal usually means primary or main, as in The principal reason I called you in to my office is to discuss your attendance.

As a noun, principal can identify a leader, significant figure, or responsible party. The word can be use to describe a school administrator (your old pal), a lead musician or theatrical performer, or the most important person in a situation.

Likewise, principally is an adverb meaning chiefly, as in Ruby Receptionists principally serves businesses seeking great first impressions.

Principal is also used in reference to money. According to Encarta, principal can be a noun meaning the initial sum of money invested or borrowed, or an adjective describing that sum of money.

The word principle has a more concise definition, and can only be used as a noun. A principle is a rule of conduct, guideline, law, or tenet. A person of good moral principles treats others with kindness and respect. The principles of mathematics explain why one plus one equals two.

To summarize, principle and principal do not have any meanings in common. If the word you are using is an adjective, principal is always the correct choice.

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Tricky Twosome: Capital and Capitol

What weighty words, these two!  With definitions concerning money, government, and matters of life and death, capital and capitol are two words everyone should strive to use correctly. 

Thankfully, only one of these words has multiple definitions.

According to Encarta’s online dictionary, capitol has one definition, and one alone: “A building or group of buildings in which a state legislature meets and where other state government offices may be housed.

Capital covers everything else—capital cities, capital letters, financial capital, capital punishment…and the list goes on.  Unless you are writing about the White House (or another government building), capital should probably be your pick.   Stick with the al ending when discussing capitalism, or describing something as capitalistic, too. 

Remember, where capitol and capital are concerned, capital is almost always correct.  When in doubt, consult your favorite dictionary, but if you’re the wagering kind, capital is your safest bet. 

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Why You Just May Want to Talk to That Cold-Caller

We know; you’re busy.  You didn’t get where you are today stopping to talk with every caller who wants to sell you something. And as your receptionists, we’re more than happy to screen your calls, giving you the freedom to get your work done on your terms. But heh, since it’s Friday, and you may be looking for a distraction from getting any serious work done, we offer the following reasons to compel you to talk to that next cold-caller:

1. She may teach you something about sales. A successful, well-seasoned sales person has invested serious time in honing her pitch. Use your conversation as a way to pick up new ways to engage others.

2. She may provide a new networking opportunity. If she’s local, she’s talking with other business owners in your community. And if she’s professional, it’s a contact you’d benefit from. Networking is networking – you never know when that contact you made will introduce you to that next opportunity.

3. Stay informed. Even if you’d never need her product or service, listening to the pitch is an easy way to learn what other businesses (and possibly competitors) are using. As small business owners, it’s all too easy to fall into that isolated bubble.  In this lightening-fast changing world, it’s great to keep your finger on the pulse of the outside world.

and finally…

4. You just may need what she’s selling! A successful sales person doesn’t waste time calling on those who don’t need what she’s offering. Chances are, you’re her target market, the one most likely to benefit greatly from what she’s selling.

So go ahead, take that call, and if what she’s selling is not for you, a simple “Thank you for calling – this is not for us, but I wish you the best of luck” will get you right back to work.

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Five Little Ways to Impress Any Caller

At Ruby Receptionists, we strive to provide our clients and their callers with out-of-this-world customer service.   Each of our virtual receptionists is skilled in the art of making callers feel special, heard, and appreciated.  This, of course, is no small feat—surely we can all recall a few telephone conversations that left us feeling less than fantastic.  But the tools our team uses are often very simple.  In fact, all it really takes to make a great first impression is a good ear and a little common courtesy.  Here are five simple tips for impressing any caller:

1.    Thank ’em very much.  The words thank you are far too rarely spoken in today’s busy world.  Any thanks you give to your caller will likely be reciprocated and greatly appreciated.  Look for an opportunity to thank every caller—and while you’re at it, aim to say thank you rather than the less formal thanks.  Even complaints or expressions of dissatisfaction can be softened by a Thank you for bringing this to my attention, or a Thank you for your feedback.   If you look hard enough, you can find a place for thank you in any conversation.

2.    Address your caller by name.  People love hearing their names, especially when uttered in a friendly tone.   If your caller gives you his or her name, give it right back.  Addressing your caller by name is a great way to showcase your attention to detail, assure the caller that you are actively listening.  A name usually accompanies a thank you beautifully.

3.    Ask, and ask nicely.  Always ask your caller for information rather than demanding it.  Skip I need your telephone number, and replace it with May I have your telephone number?   Be liberal with please.  This little word exudes professionalism and respect.   They don’t call it the magic word for nothing!

4.    Don’t show what you don’t know.  Even the brightest and best receptionists don’t have the answer to every question.  However, immediately admitting that you don’t have an answer will not benefit you or your caller.  Instead, show your ingenuity, and offer to help your caller find the requested information.  Here are some examples of foolproof replies: 

o    Let me find out for you.

o    Let me look in to that for you.

o    Let me put you in touch with best person to answer that question.

o    I would be happy to research that for you.

o    Great question!  Let me see what I can find out. 

 

5.    Be your wonderful self.  When fielding calls for a business, professionalism necessarily plays a key part in every telephone interaction.  However, being professional does not have to mean being monotonous, robotic, or boring.  If your caller cracks a funny joke, laugh.  If your caller wants to chat a bit, don’t hesitate to engage your talkative side.  Expressing your natural warmth and friendliness will never fail to brighten your day and your caller’s day. 

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